Dealing with Cheaters

“Oh, but I didn’t want to hurt you!”This is a classic excuse, often uttered as if it absolves the cheater of their actions. But let’s be honest—if they truly didn’t want to hurt you, they wouldn’t have cheated in the first place. Cheating isn’t an accident; it’s a deliberate choice made at the expense of…

When I first discovered I had been cheated on, my mind instinctively tried to compartmentalize. I wanted to believe that the woman I loved and the person who betrayed me were two entirely different people—like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. It felt easier to think of her infidelity as some temporary lapse, an aberration that…