Category: Ground Zero
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Should I confront my cheater?
Discovering that someone you love has been unfaithful is one of the most painful experiences you can face. The shock, confusion, and heartbreak can leave you feeling lost and unsure of what to do next. If you’re reading this, you may be grappling with the decision of whether-or how-to confront your partner about their cheating.…
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Just got cheated on – some advice
So you’ve just found out you’ve been cheated on. It’s a horrible place to be, and the next days will be tough. Here’s what you need to know to get through the immediate aftermath I’m the type who likes to believe I can just flip a mental switch and move on (classic economist, always trying…
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The Contortions You May Face From a Cheater
“Oh, but I didn’t want to hurt you!”Ah, the classic. As if intention magically erases impact. If they truly didn’t want to hurt you, they’d have kept their trousers zipped and their promises intact. Cheating isn’t an accident; it’s a deliberate choice made at the expense of someone else’s trust and emotional well-being. You can’t…
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They Aren’t Jekyll and Hyde: Who They Really Are Underneath
When you first learn you’ve been cheated on, it’s like someone’s pulled the rug out from under your reality. One moment, you’re standing on solid ground; the next, you’re free-falling through questions you never thought you’d have to ask. When it first happened to me, my mind instinctively tried to compartmentalise. I wanted to believe…