Welcome to Crowned Not Clowned!


The blog to help you get through being cheated on and move on

  • If you just need pragmatic advice, see “Advice
  • If you are feeling blind rage, see the “Ground Zero” posts
  • If you have processed it, but don’t really know where to go from here, see the “Guides for the future
  • If you are calm and in the process of moving on, but tired of the whole situation, see “Warm Cup of Tea

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  • They Aren’t Jekyll and Hyde: Who They Really Are Underneath

    They Aren’t Jekyll and Hyde: Who They Really Are Underneath

    When you first learn you’ve been cheated on, it’s like someone’s pulled the rug out from under your reality. One moment, you’re standing on solid ground; the next, you’re free-falling through questions you never thought you’d have to ask. When it first happened to me, my mind instinctively tried to compartmentalise. I wanted to believe…